Jason + Macy Engagement Session

I became friends with Jason about four years ago, primarily because we have the exact same sense of humor (which I’ve found can be rare), and we both really love ‘Friends’. Jason is a thinker, a math nerd, a political guru, and one of the most honest people I know. He cares deeply for the people in his life, and is quite often the life of the party. We’ve laughed hard, grieved harder, and deeply conversed our way through these last four years, and we have found Christ’s sufficiency in each situation.

Then, at Chili’s on a Sunday night in November 2008, Macy unexpectedly came into our lives. Little did I know that night, as I was so guarded and wary of this possible new addition to our little group of friends, that she would mean so much to me. Macy is a fellow Texan, and proud of it (as she should be). She is always there to offer a helping hand, a crafty artist and talented painter, and a lover of the Old Testament. She brings with her a love of coffee and good conversation, which may be my favorite thing about her. I am so grateful that she didn’t give up on me that first night when I wasn’t as accepting as I should have been, because she is one of my dearest friends today.

I am excited to be a part of their special day, not only as their Engagement Session photographer and graphic designer, but also as a bridesmaid. I look forward to standing beside them in support not only on June 9, but for years to come. So, that being said, enjoy some shots from their engagement session!

 

Take Heart this Valentine’s Day

I’ve done my best to stay away from all things social media today. I know Valentine’s Day is a day to celebrate love and all, but I’m sick of seeing every.single.flower.arrangement.known.to.man. We get it, you got flowers. How original.

But enough of the cynicism.

Since today is a day of love, I figured I should share some love with you guys. Especially since the title of my blog is “Just Love”.

And perhaps because my tattoo reminds me to love every single day:

But even more so because Jesus tells to: “So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other. Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are My disciples.” John 13:34-35

And the only reason we can love others, is because He first loved us.

So, in honor of this great love which He has bestowed upon us, I’m sharing a brand new design download with you! Only because I just love you so much. :)

This has been my desktop background and Facebook Timeline cover photo for quite some time. I took the photo when I was in Gatlinburg over Christmas. The text is from one of my favorite songs, “Take Heart” by Hillsong United. But you can see more on that in my Music Mania 1.0 post.

Download the JPEG by clicking on the image below. Then right click and save!

♥ Happy Valentine’s Day! ♥

Harvest Time

I was standing at my kitchen sink the other night washing dishes (my least favorite thing to do, by the way). The TV was on in the background, and something caught my attention. When I looked up to see what it was, I realized that God had whispered to me through a Tropicana commercial.

We nurture the trees all year round so that the fruit is ready at harvest time.

Well, I didn’t memorize it, but that was the jist of what the commercial said.

Nurture. All year. Fruit. Harvest. A flood of thoughts came to my mind.

1. We cannot harvest that which has not be nurtured.
We cannot reap what has not been sown. If we do not put in the work, we will not reap the benefits.

“For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven. A time to be born and a time to die. A time to plant and a time to harvest.” Ecclesiastes 3:1-2

2. That being said, we reap what we sow.
Whatever we spend our time, money, talents, and energy on will be what we gain at harvest time, whether good or bad. If we spend our days on the decaying things of this world, that is what we will be left with. But if we spend our days sowing the seeds of the gospel in our own lives and in those God has placed in our lives, we will be prepared for whatever He has for us come harvest time.

“Humans can reproduce only human life, but the Holy Spirit gives birth to spiritual life.” John 3:6

“Those who live only to satisfy their own sinful nature will harvest decay and death from that sinful nature. But those who live to please the Spirit will harvest everlasting life from the Spirit.” Galatians 6:8

3. We do not reap what we sow immediately.
It takes work. Hard work. And it takes time. We may not see the results of our work for years, if ever (see my post on Hebrews 11 for more on that). All throughout Scripture you see the phrase “in due time”. Sanctification does not happen at the point of salvation, and we all know that Rome wasn’t built in a day. We also know that God’s timing is perfect, and He knows exactly when we should see the harvest. We must wait on Him, and keep on sowing.

“So let’s not get tired of doing what is good. At just the right time we will reap a harvest of blessing if we don’t give up. Therefore, whenever we have the opportunity, we should do good to everyone—especially to those in the family of faith.” Galatians 6:9-10

“Yet God has made everything beautiful for its own time. He has planted eternity in the human heart, but even so, people cannot see the whole scope of God’s work from beginning to end. So I concluded there is nothing better than to be happy and enjoy ourselves as long as we can. And people should eat and drink and enjoy the fruits of their labor, for these are gifts from God.” Ecclesiastes 3:11-13

4. We reap more than we sow.
The harvest is always greater than the seed planted. This truth is significant as well as sobering. Whatever good we receive in the harvest is given to us by God, Who owes us nothing. However, the key to reaping more is giving more. The more we give sacrificially (depending on Him to provide), the more we shall receive.

“They all depend on You to give them food as they need it. When You supply it, they gather it. You open Your hand to feed them, and they are richly satisfied.” Psalm 104:27-28

“Give, and you will receive. Your gift will return to you in full—pressed down, shaken together to make room for more, running over, and poured into your lap. The amount you give will determine the amount you get back.” Luke 6:38

5. And finally, we cannot change the harvests of the past, we must look to the harvest in our future.
If we failed to produce a good crop last year, we cannot waste time this year feeling sorry for ourselves. That will only cause us to fail again this year! We must repent and look to the future. But we also cannot live on last year’s harvest. If we obeyed the Lord and did the work and produced a bountiful, satisfying harvest last year, that cannot be enough. This is a new year. Just because He blessed us last year because of our obedience, does not mean that we get a free pass this time around.

We must continue sowing, for His glory and for our joy.

“But I press on to possess that perfection for which Christ Jesus first possessed me. No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us.” Philippians 3:12-14

South Africa Fundraiser | Stylin’ Baby

Stylin Baby has kindly donated these incredibly cute baby girl items for me to sell as a fundraiser for our trip to South Africa! All proceeds go towards buying clothing, Bibles, and other items for the orphanages we will be visiting!

Customized Wipe Case
Cost: $14

Customized Headbands (mix ‘n match any flower with any headband)
Cost: $8 for 1 flower + 1 headband

Leave a comment with your email address if you are interested, or email me at hayleyacatt@mac.com!

Music Mania 1.0

You can all thank me now. Go ahead, I’ll wait.

…………….

Why the gratitude, you ask? Well, I have decided to share some of my favorite songs of all time with you. Now this is only my first post of what I hope to be many so I’m not going to reveal all of my music mania, but this post should definitely get your iTunes headed down the right track, if I do say so myself.

1. “Stranger” by Mandi Mapes
Mandi leads worship at The Church at Brook Hills in Birmingham, AL. I could easily suggest you purchase her entire album “Til I’m Home”, but if I had to choose one track, it would be this one, with another following at close second, but you’ll just have to wait on that one.

Buy it here: iTunes
Watch the acoustic version here:

2. “Take Heart” by Hillsong United
I’ve never experienced what I believe Heaven will be like more than when I’ve attended a Hillsong United concert, and this is one of my favorite songs of theirs. Its been on repeat in my house, car, and office quite a bit lately. I crank up the volume loud enough to annoy everyone within a 2 mile radius and pound my fist to the truths found in these lyrics. Listen, and just try not to raise your hands in worship to our Overcomer. I think it may be impossible.

Buy it here: iTunes
Watch it here (sorry I couldn’t find anything with better quality than this):

3. “Painting Pictures of Egypt” by Sara Groves
I listen to this song often to remind myself that my unknown future in Christ is so much better than being comfortable in the known without Him. It is a beautiful picture of the Israelites wandering in the desert, and how similar we can be to them even today. In fact, the last time we were in Israel, I played the song for our bus as we were driving through the Judean wilderness. My favorite line? “If it comes too quick, I may not appreciate it. Is that the reason behind all this time and sand?”

Buy it here: iTunes
Watch it here: Sidenote: Don’t let the very 90′s looking music video distract you from the lyrics. :)

4. “Love Has Found Us” by Bellarive
I was first introduced to this band at some friends of mine’s wedding in Orlando on New Years Day 2011. They performed during the ceremony, which was actually more like a beautiful worship service, and as soon as I got home I looked them up. The lead singer has an incredibly unique voice, and I just can’t get enough of them. Do yourself a favor and purchase the entire album.

Buy it here: iTunes
Watch my video from Uganda set to the song here:

5. “The Earth is Yours” by Gungor
As Christian artists are concerned, Gungor and Bellarive are at the very top of my list. They have a unique and refreshing sound that almost makes me want to listen to Christian radio, if Christian radio would actually play more things like this. This song is one of my favorites on Gungor’s “Beautiful Things” album.

Buy it here: iTunes
Watch their video from the forest here:

Can I just jam out with Gungor in the forest every day? I’ll play the leaves.

Oh and… you’re welcome.

Keep an eye out for 2.0!

Surprise, Surprise

Life is full of surprises. Unexpected moments. Knock-you-off-your-feet days.

I don’t like surprises. I never have. Ask any of my college friends. They threw me a surprise going away party right before I graduated and it was probably the worst idea they’ve ever had. It didn’t help that I knew about it and had to pretend like I didn’t. That just made it worse. It was so awkward. (insert cricket sounds here)

A fairly significant surprise came for me this week. As I was reading my email, my jaw dropped and my hand reached to pick up the phone and call a friend. I’m not one to process surprising news on my own very well. I need someone to talk it out with me. Someone I can trust with whatever reaction comes first. And someone who can tell me what the better reaction should be, before I go out there showing my true colors. (Thanks Kim) ;)

Shock. Disbelief. Frustration. Slightly Relieved. Nervous. Challenged.
This was my chain of reaction to the news.

Thankfully I’ve mulled it over and finally gotten to that Challenged phase. I was reminded that this was not a surprise to God. He knew all along that this would happen. He knew all along that we could be trusted with this. And He is asking us to step up to the challenge. So we are.

What is the challenge, you ask? Well, I’m not quite at liberty to say. All I can tell you at this point is that our LOVE Africa trip is going to look a bit different and be a bit more challenging than I originally thought.

So this week, I am thankful for this truth:
“God is greater than our feelings, and He knows everything.”
1 John 3:20

And this song:
“No Weapon” by Crosspointe Church 
We are not alone
Where You send us You have already gone
And what will happen You have already known
We are not alone

We are not afraid
Though enemies surround Your hand will save
Where hope cannot be found You are the way
We are not afraid

No weapon shall prevail against me
The God of Heaven and earth is with me

We will not be tired along the journey
And this road is hard
Where strength is weary You will lift us higher
We will not be tired

We will not be silent
For silence has no power when Your Word brings life
Let every nation see the dead arise
We will not be silent

No weapon shall prevail against me
The God of Heaven and earth is with me

I’m Hearing Voices

I am writing this blog at the risk of sounding like someone who should be committed. But I just can’t take the voices anymore.

Loud voices, quiet voices… self-condeming voices, self-praising voices… important voices, unnecessary voices… holy voices, human voices…

Voices that are pushing and pulling me in every direction.

And I want to scream so I can be heard.
And I just need a few moments of quiet.

Quiet. To decipher which voices I should listen to. Which voices I should follow. Quiet to decipher which voices I should base life decisions on.

Because on my own, I can manipulate any voice I please to make it sound like I want it to. On my own, I can follow any voice I want.

But I don’t want to do that, because I’m not on my own.

I want to turn down my voice and the voices of this world and only hear the voice of my Maker. To silence every voice besides the only One that matters.

“Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, ‘This is the way; walk in it.’” Isaiah 30:21

I’ve found the only way to silence the voices, is to just keep going deeper. Because the deeper you go, the quieter it gets.

So I’m spending these next few months at attention before God. Diving deep and praying He silences the voices, so that I’m only left with His quiet whisper.

“Then [Elijah] was told, ‘Go, stand on the mountain at attention before God. God will pass by.’ A hurricane wind ripped through the mountains and shattered the rocks before God, but God wasn’t to be found in the wind; after the wind an earthquake, but God wasn’t in the earthquake; and after the earthquake fire, but God wasn’t in the fire; and after the fire a gentle and quiet whisper.” 1 Kings 19:11-12

My 2012 To Do List

They aren’t so much resolutions as much as a list of things I’d like to do this year.

  1. Take a road trip.
  2. Read two or more of the Harry Potter books.
  3. Take a day trip to the Wild Animal Safari in Pine Mountain.
  4. Take Penny Lane on a long walk three+ times a week.
  5. Check off three of my Bucket List items.
  6. Become semi-conversational in Italian.
  7. Go to a concert or music festival.
  8. Save more and spend less.
  9. Become intimately acquainted with one book of the Bible.
  10. Be better at keeping in touch with the people I love.
  11. Declutter.
  12. Finally finish my Israel 2010 Shutterfly book.
  13. Take a biblical counseling course.
  14. Spend a weekend in a new city with friends.  √ Savannah!
  15. Give more.

Alright, I’ve shared mine, now it is your turn. What are some things you would like to do this year?

It’s a New Year!

…So I’m giving you a new FREE download!

I have this hanging in my kitchen. It is from one of my very favorite songs, “Beautiful Things” by one of my very favorite bands, Gungor.

Check out the acoustic version:

   

 Download the PDF: Beautiful Things  

May your dust be turned to beautiful things in 2012! 

Decisions, Decisions

Life is marked by millions of decisions. Small ones like where to eat dinner, what to wear, who to call, and when to leave. I’ve never had much trouble with these kinds of decisions. 99% of the time, I know what I want. I may not verbalize it, because I want someone else to choose instead, but I know what I’m leaning towards.

And then there are the big ones.

Until a few years ago, I didn’t have much trouble with the big decisions, either. God gently closed doors that I had tried to pry open, and guided me in the right direction, all the while showering me with His peace. But lately, these decisions haven’t been so easy.

As a child, I lived with abandon. I climbed higher and ran farther than I should have. I was a wild child nicknamed “Hurricane Hayley”, who knew who she was, what she wanted, and wouldn’t let anyone change her mind.

In a sense, I am still that child. Discernment and wisdom are my spiritual gifts. I am not easily swayed. And yet I’ve found that I’ve become too cautious. I am a bit more hesitant to jump when He says jump. I find myself wondering. I find myself fearful and wanting to give up at the slightest speed bump in the road.

I tell Him it’s too hard. Too scary. Too uncomfortable. Too unclear.

And I know. I know He is with me. He is before me and behind me. I know He will protect me, no matter what decision He places in front of me. But in the back of my mind I tell myself that I’m not good enough. I am not ready.

But that is just where He wants me.

He asks much of me, because He wants me to know that it is not me. I’m right. I cannot do it. I cannot go that place or do that thing He is asking. I am not good enough to do it on my own.

But He is.

He is good enough to equip me. He is good enough to open doors and close them. He is good enough to go with me wherever He sends me. He is good enough to allow me to join Him in His kingdom work, no matter how pitiful I am.

“If you had felt yourself sufficient it would have been proof that you are not.” – Aslan

And He is good enough to remind me of that.

Do not forget in the darkness what He has shown you in the light.

It happens too easily.

May I be a willing vessel, sitting on the edge of my seat in anticipation for when He says “jump”.

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